The victim of this narcissist faces a huge challenge after all the abuse she has suffered. Healing from such narcissistic abuse requires a complete reconfiguration of one’s identity, which has been replaced by the narcissist’s fake identity. Once a narcissist enters your life, your sense of self will be completely drained. When you struggle to get free from them, you find yourself starting over from scratch. You wonder about everything you thought you knew about yourself. That’s because a narcissist doesn’t experience or process emotions like you do. For them, emotions like love, sadness, or regret are weaknesses that can be exploited. They aren’t natural elements to be experienced, nor signs of humanity. It may take years to fully heal from such abuse. You’ve been fighting and working hard to change and save the narcissist. Now, do this for yourself—it’s worth it. You deserve the best.