We have a strong motivation to protect our children. However, this same protection can ultimately lead to their lifelong disabilities. Instead of trying to save them from difficult situations, we must teach our children how to handle and overcome those challenges. In one of his most important books to date, renowned psychologist and bestselling author Dr. Kevin Lamman explains how parents can be good listeners, how to tell the truth even in difficult times, how to balance protection with excessive caution, and how to view pain and injustice as an opportunity for learning, rather than as reasons to reinforce a victim mentality. This book will help parents deal with all the problems that their children face, and learn from them.