We always yearn for someone – we believe that their presence will erase all our pain and fill us with peace. We imagine that when this happens, we will finally feel complete! But the truth is that the person we thought would save us… may actually be the source of our greatest disappointment. Instead of finding solace in their presence, we may instead become disillusioned, withdrawn, and fade away. Seeking solace in them becomes our own personal hell, a distraction from confronting our own selves, a mere escape. Those who believe they can quench their thirst by chasing illusions are ultimately setting themselves up for disappointment.